The kimorii room in Bangkok

WHAT TO EXPECT IN THE HINOKI ROOM

At the most boring experience

RULE ONE

Your phone stays out of reach.

Leave it in your bag, or hand it over and we'll keep it for you. It's the part people hesitate on, and it's also the part that makes everything else work.

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A few basic things

This isn't a class. Nobody talks you through it, nothing starts at a set time, and there's no version of this you can do badly.

No guide

Nobody walks you through anything. There's nothing to learn or anything to accomplish. Come early if you'd like to chat or have questions.

Sit or lie down

Whichever your body wants, and you can change your mind as often as you like. There's no correct posture.

Eyes shut

Best option if you want to focus on the sounds of the forest and reducing screen time.

Or watch the forest

Real footage from Japanese onsens and the forest. Just stare and zone out.

Nothing to accomplish

Come stressed out, be bored and see how you feel when you leave.

Scent, if you want more

The room is already diffused with hinoki. For something stronger, put a few drops on a wood block and smell during your stay.

Recommended during your stay

Simple, but consistent breathwork

Breathwork combined with scent is one of the most effective ways to regulate your nervous system. Practice one of the below methods and notice how you feel after your stay.

Alert calm

4-4-4-4

Box breathing

In through your nose for four, hold for four, out for four, then stay empty for four. That's one round, and you simply keep going.

All four sides are even, which is what makes it easy to stay with when your mind wanders off.

Even on all four sides. Good for settling in.

Deeper rest

4-7-8

For deeper relaxation

In through your nose for four, hold for seven, then let it out slowly through your mouth for eight.

The long exhale is doing the work, because an out breath that runs longer than the in breath is what tips your body toward rest.

Longer out breath. Good for going deeper.

Pick one and keep it steady.

No pressure to find which one works best for you. Try one out this session and the other one next session.

the first five minutes

Most people feel uncomfortable at the start.

That discomfort isn't a sign it's going wrong. It's what happens when your body notices that nothing is coming in, and it takes a few minutes to believe it.

  1. the first minutes

    You settle in

    The forest starts playing and the newness of it carries you along for a couple of minutes.

  2. around five minutes

    The urge shows up

    You reach for a phone that isn't there, or you start thinking about something that would feel productive. That's your nervous system asking for its next hit of input.

  3. the part that matters

    You do nothing about it

    Don't fight the urge and don't follow it. Keep sitting, keep breathing, and let it pass on its own.

  4. the rest of the time

    Your body switches modes

    The room stops feeling boring and starts feeling quiet. Your breathing slows without you managing it, and that's rest mode coming online.

if the shift doesn't come

Some people don't feel it on the first visit, and that's normal. Sitting through the restless part is the practice, and it gets easier every time you do it.

questions

Ask us anything before you sit down.

If you want to know more about the scent, the science of calm, or nervous system regulation in general, we're happy to talk any of it through.

Come a little early

Turn up before your session and ask in person. It's the easiest way to get into the detail.

Or send us a message

We read everything that comes in, and we'll get back to you.

@theoandamelia